As a behavioral assistant, one of my biggest regrets has been not sharing my story with the families I’ve worked with. My focus was always on supporting the youth and their families, putting their needs first. I felt that my personal journey was irrelevant to providing effective care. However, reflecting on my own experience as a child in the system, I realize I missed an opportunity to connect on a deeper level with the families I served.
Having been through similar challenges, I can relate to the struggles many of these families face. Over the years, I’ve worked with almost a thousand families, each with unique needs and situations. Looking back, I see how sharing my story could have been impactful—not only for the youth but also for the parents, some of whom feel that seeking assistance means their child is inherently “bad.” By showing them that kids in the system can grow up to succeed, I could have offered them hope and reassurance.
This has taught me a vital lesson as a behavioral assistant: authenticity and shared experiences can build trust and inspire. My story could have been a powerful tool, helping parents understand that needing help doesn’t define their child’s future. As I continue this work, I carry forward the understanding that my journey can provide a unique source of encouragement and insight to the families I support.
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First and foremost I am a father, people-person and Entrepreneur!
I’m also a behavioral assistant and part owner of a private mental health practice in Somerset, New Jersey.
